Men and women love to be in love. The pursuit and approach of seeking love is totally different between the sexes, which causes the never-ending tension between men and women. For men girlfriends just happen, there may be a woman of our interests in our life but we will not change how we act, talk, dress etc. That is until we are in a relationship you may see actual changes in a man, pussy is that powerful to change SOME men. Women on the other hand will put their heart on the line just to say they have a man. Change places where they hang out, how they dress, talk, even stop having sex just waiting for that special someone to sweep them off their feet so they can live happily ever after. Unfortunately ladies it doesn't work this way if you want a boyfriend. The sad thing is a woman will settle for a "situationship" just to say they have someone. Not everything like a real relationship but from the outside looking in she has a shoulder to cry on, someone who picks her up from the train after work, a man who breaks her back out before the credits start rolling when they watch Netflix. Not sure if you are in a situationship or a relationship? Lets discuss some key factors that separate the real from the false hopes.