Being a human you tend to be your own worse enemy. We have wants and desires when we get involved with an individual but these wants all come with fine print. Let’s take the bedroom for instance. Nothing beats a freak in the bedroom. Someone who makes your toes curl, kissing you at the right time, licking you the way you like and sucking you until the last drop. (Spitters are for quitters). But no matter how awesome that person may be if you find out how he/she got around town and smashed the homies/homegirls your feelings towards that individual will diminish and in many cases fade completely. Isn't it interesting that one would put their happiness aside just because of the image the hood has of that person, not because they don’t treat you like you want to be treated. Pride and emotions can lead one to a lonely future.